When I listen to a Carrie Newcomer song, I often sense a shiver in my spine and sometimes feel tears coming to my eyes. And I’ve learned that when that happens, it’s important to pay attention.
Newcomer somehow expresses just what I’m thinking and feeling, and I haven’t felt this way about a singer/songwriter since the Beatles and Joni Mitchell. She encourages us to look deeper, to see beauty and mystery in nature and in ordinary people. Her emotional openness and vulnerability are deeply affecting.
Here’s a video of her singing “Bare to the Bone” on Krista Tippett’s show “On Being,” with a refrain of “What we do in love and kindness is all we’ll ever leave behind.” Tippett says that Newcomer’s songs confront “the raw and redemptive edges of human reality.”
Barbara Kingsolver calls Carrie Newcomer “a minister of a wide-eyed gospel of hope and grace.” Her songs are “attuned to the still, small voice of the soul that’s so often muffled by the noise of the world,” says spirituality writer Parker Palmer. The Boston Globe calls her a “prairie mystic.”
Newcomer is 64 and lives in her native Indiana. She’s a Quaker and many of her songs deal with spiritual topics, but in a musical style that’s familiar to many of us. There’s a little rock, a touch of jazz, some country and occasional gospel.
Newcomer has said that most Christian contemporary music gives you just eight crayons to paint with. “I’m more of a 48-crayon gal, theologically,” she said. One of her songs was part of every Lenten service this year at First Congregational Church in Amherst, and I gave a talk on her music at a Leverett church in January.
Here’s a video of Newcomer singing about her many-crayoned faith in “I Believe.” One of the things she believes is that “when I close my eyes to sleep at night, it’s good to say ‘Amen.’”
“She can make you dance one moment, laugh the next, and then take you to a deeply moving, even prayerful place, as she touches on regret, loss or grief and the wonder of being alive,” says Palmer, a frequent collaborator on her lyrics and a podcast called “The Growing Edge.”
Especially relevant to my search for peace and serenity is Newcomer’s insistence that we already have all the resources that we need for dealing with adversity. “Within us and between us is everything we need,” she sings. In “Three Feet or So,” she sings, “I can’t change the whole world, but I can change the world I know, what’s within three feet or so.” In “I Believe,” she sings, “I know that I get scared sometimes, but all I need is here.”
Many of Newcomer’s songs express deep truths in just a few words: “If I start by being kind, love usually follows right behind”; “I am everything I’ve found and I am everything I’ve lost; I am all that I’ve been given and I’m everything it cost”; and “This forest has a different sense of time than yours or mine.” I’m particularly fond of this one: “I’m not lost, I’m only wandering; I’m not adrift, I’m just at sea; I’m not sure, I’m only guessing.”
“We have enormous power to create positive change in the world in how we choose to live our daily lives,” she has written.
Many songs convey a sense of wonder in everyday experiences, as she finds holiness everywhere. Here’s a video of her singing “Geodes,” the first song of hers that got my attention. When I heard the line, “All these things that we call familiar are just miracles clothed in the commonplace,” I knew I had discovered someone who spoke to me.
Did I mention that Newcomer can be funny as well as deep? Here’s a video of her singing “Don’t Push Send,” which is “a very sad tale of intrigue, romance and electronic mail.” Or playful? Check out “My Dog,” and the line “I’m trying to be the person that my dog thinks I am.”
Carrie Newcomer’s songs frequently use original, imperfect rhymes (such as “Today is now, tomorrow beckons; keep practicing resurrection”). Many have curiosity-provoking titles, such as “Learning to Sit Without Knowing,” “Throwing Rocks at the Moon,” and “Impossible – Until It’s Not.”
Her songs “Room at the Table” and “If Not Now” have social justice resonances. “You Can Do This Hard Thing” was inspired by Kingsolver, a friend who wrote the liner notes to one of her albums. “A Gathering of Spirits” can be heard at pub sings.
Newcomer is not shy about admitting, even befriending, the mistakes she has made. She believes that mistakes are inevitable when we live straight from the heart, but also that there can be healing in relationships, in compassion, and in community.
“I have spent a lifetime trying to describe in language those things we experience that have no words,” she’s written. A good example of this quest is “I Do Not Know Its Name,” It’s a song about the ineffable and it gives me a tingle every time I hear it.
With her 2019 album “The Point of Arrival,” I see Carrie Newcomer coming to a place of peace and centeredness. In “Writing a Better Story,” she sings, “I’m ending where another story starts, at the edges I can grow, even when they’re razor-sharp.” The title cut concludes with this: “Looking down at my hands, finally I understand. The empty space has changed somehow. And it’s filled with Hallelujah now.”
Some of the songs on her latest album, “Until Now,” address the Covid pandemic. It opens with, “Here in the great unraveling, so much of this is baffling, when breathing feels like gambling.”
But she also sees the potential for redemption in scary times, singing, “We can’t just be healed; we must be transformed when the sky goes dark and the wolf is at the door.” And this: “When the old world ends, a new world starts. What finally comes together first had to fall apart.” Her penchant for optimism is heard in “I Will Sing a New Song.”
“Like Molly Brown” honors female heroes, not just the survivor of the Titanic but also Rosa Parks, Ruth Bader Ginsberg and Lucretia Mott.
Since the Beatles and Joni Mitchell, I’ve been influenced by the songs of Gordon Lightfoot, Elvis Costello, Phil Ochs, Fred Small, Leonard Cohen, Enya and Gregory Norbet. But none of them have touched me in the way that Carrie Newcomer has.
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